Have you heard of a Silent Appointment? Here’s 3 reasons why I love this option.
Can you go on a ride with me for a second?
I was about to write close your eyes, but then realized you’ll need to continue reading… so that wouldn’t workout very well.. hahaha
Ok, back to our ride, imagine you’re have a long week at work, a tiresome day at home with the fam, or maybe you deal with anxiety or anything that has an effect on your mind and body. Maybe you need a vacay…like, yesterday. You probably know exactly where this is going by now but if not, hang in there.
Have you ever sat in the movie theater and had someone talking the whole time, you couldn’t fully enjoy the movie? Do you talk and make big decisions all day? Do you wish you could do something where you are in the care of someone you can trust and they expect nothing of you, then feel great afterwards?
You know, the one thing that can ruin a massage, facial, and sometimes a pedicure for me??
Talking.. yep. I don’t really want to chit chat. I appreciate keeping conversation to an all time low. Only discussing what needs to be communicated to achieve the desired result. In these cases, relaxation is key. I wanna zone out or fall asleep and wake up walking on clouds! That’s it!
Now, it can be a bit different when comes to a hair appointment because there is a bit of communication that needs to happen, checking-in with with each other, etc.. But what if that was it?
3 reasons to opt for a “Silent Appointment”:
It offers a time to have comfortable silence with someone who cares and will help reinforce you making your mental health a priority.
You are in total control of the amount of conversation. We only need to discuss hair and appointment related topics. The amount of education stays the same, the consultation and getting to know your wants needs lifestyle etc.. It all stays the same.
It is a safe space. No strings attached. No more feeling bad for not wanting to have much to offer in a conversation when all you really want is to zone out, enjoy being pampered, and turn off your mind for a little bit. No social expectations here!!
Truly, this is not much different than how I approach appointments anyway. I always have tried to go with the flow, create a comfortable space, and follow your lead, especially when it’s only myself and client in the salon. But I am not a mind reader and have probably started conversations or didn’t pick up on a cue before. So for the sake of having a lack of telepathy, I feel I have to adopt this idea. I heard of this from a salon in the UK, called Not Another Salon. I thought about how it was f***ing GENIUS!
So please, take advantage of this. I will always give encouragement to breathe, unplug, and relax but all you need to do is note that today is a silent visit in your confirmation text (each visit) where you sign off on policies etc.
That’s it.
You are NOT allowed to “feel bad” about simply wanting to just exist with me! I don’t care if you opt for it sometimes OR all the time. No judgement. I am here for you!
Believe me, I will enjoy it just as much as you!
Your Personal Destination Hairstylist,
